主题：【原创】如何在婚前判断男人的“家暴”倾向 -- 局部地区有阵雨
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首先，“浪漫派”是“家暴”的第一高危人群。其中又分为两类，一类是“内在”的浪漫，就是骨子里浪漫的男人，他的浪漫是发自内心的，随时随地的。这样的男人最可怕，因为他高度的情绪化，理想化。当他爱你的时候，可以为你做任何事，甚至去死；但结婚后，一旦对你的感情生变，或发现你本人并不是他幻想中的那样完美，这种刻骨的爱转化为刻骨的恨不过是一步之遥。爱得越深，恨得也就越深。
That won't wait so long till marriage. 家暴 normally has family history. It is better to check his/her family, see how his/her parents get along. If not good, don't sign contract with such a guy/girl. Another issue is related to personality. This kind of family abuse happens more often with those people who have abnormal personality, such as ignore others feeling, over-aggressive. I saw a couple of such family violence cases. It is nothing to do with romantic. It appears to me communication is the problem between them.
