主题：恋爱中如何识别和摆脱loser，男女都适用 -- coo

so surprised by the "word/definition"...

when u love someone, it's so happy to be able to do s.th to make her/him happy, no complain at all...

love is not a trade, (like marriage), there always be sunshine when u are in love, the whole life becomes new and meaningful because of another one, and a new world come to u due to the relationship... could there be any accounting measurement for love?

it's said: u become a fool when in love, why? because no calculation, no rationality, like not in reality anymore... like a dream...

so at least, the love already is not true and pure, or one of them has personality or characteristics issue, and then the TRADE starts to be measured, and then LOSS or benefit becomes issue/concern for some one, meaning it's time for one of them to WITHDRAW ASAP, not the right candidate for partner, time to change.

Well, maybe i am too idealistic, just for discussion.

Love is Beautiful, and really makes life happy and meaningful... Though might also deep hurt sometimes, it deserves when u meet someone that deserves ur love, good to experience then totally innocent--personal opinion... :-)

good relationship should never lead to death, unless one met Mr. Wrong...

Thanks for the post, and the discussion, :-), have a nice weekend!