主题：恋爱中如何识别和摆脱loser，男女都适用 -- coo

the teaching...

u are right: "Most likely, her/his first love might end up with a broken heart/or hearts. " But even with a broken heart, u still have sweet memory left, right?

And agree:

"Now the strategy becomes how to manage one's life when meeting a wrong guy/gal. At the first place, one should not let love entirely mess up one's life. Being oneself, then he is able to face the life without that wrong guy/gal."

Fulfilling one's life with something else, and let time to cure the broken heart, is a right strategy. Never (try not) to lose ONESELF, in a relationship, could be a 'mature" way to deal with the issue.

We all grow after we fall down, and we learn from experience; then, next time, we know how to cherish/treasure the lover, with more knowledge, skills, and much bigger heart...

a good relationship is memorable for life, even if they seperate at the end in case...