主题：请北美及英国的河友指教 -- 吴用

i have seen many follow each of the two roads (people usually are not dumb and know what's a probably way to get ahead).

for the first one, there are girls who were trying so hard to land a husband but keep being taken advantage of. Really feel sad seeing this.

for the second one, the college is always too expensive for the entire family to handle, and the name brand value is always not so much to justify the sacrifice of the family.