主题：【原创】男人的爱与女人的爱是有区别的，兼答九九妹子的疑问 -- 大懒虫1号

这个是六人行里面关于楼主文章的行为解释例子：

女人注重感受，男人注重结果

RACH: Ross kissed me.

MNCA: Oh my god, oh my god, oh my god!

RACH: It was unbelievable!

MNCA: Oh my god, oh my god, oh my god!

PHOE: Ok, all right. We want to hear everything. Monica, get the wine and unplug the phone. Rachel, does this end well or do we need to get tissues?

RACH: Oh, it ended very well.

PHOE: Oh.

MNCA: [getting the wine] Do not start without me. Do not start without me.

PHOE: Ok, all right, let's hear about the kiss. Was it like, was it like a soft brush against your lips? Or was it like a, you know, a "I gotta have you now" kind of thing?

RACH: Well, at first it was really intense, you know. And then, oh, god, and then we just sort of sunk into it.

PHOE: Ok, so, ok, was he holding you? Or was his hand like on your back?

RACH: No, actually first they started on my waist. And then, they slid up, and then, they were in my hair.

PHOE/MNCA: Ohhhh.

[Scene: Ross' apartment. Ross, Chandler, and Joey are there eating pizza.]

ROSS: And, uh, and then I kissed her.

JOEY: Tongue?

ROSS: Yeah.

JOEY: Cool.

懒虫mm可真是一点也不懒。

有时候，作决定也就那么一瞬间的事情，根本就没有我们想象得那么复杂，就连当事人自己，回头看看，也觉得颇有些难以理解。很多人对初恋念念不忘，只不过是因为，一直惦记着如果当时我怎样做，那么，现在就会如何如何了。有些既成事实，到正好日后给自己留了好多遐想回忆余地。有些人觉得很值得，要用一辈子去记住；有些人觉得，这只不过在自欺欺人浪费时间。

士之耽兮，犹可说也；女之耽兮，不可说也。

说，通假字，音tui，4声。

话说这篇诗是选入高中课本的，名字为“氓”，讲的是一男一女由相爱到（心）相离的故事，以女子的口吻来追述的，其中相离的根本原因是：女也不爽，士贰其行。士也罔极，二三其德。这个也算是一种朦胧的爱情教育啦。