主题：del -- 猫元帅
抛开你和你太太脾气不合的问题。 从另一个方面来看， 能让长得美丽大方，出得厅堂的她看上并爱上的你，也是仪表堂堂， 颇有才华的吧。
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Well I don't know what I'm looking for
But I know that I just wanna look some more
And I won't be satisfied
'Till there's nothing left that I haven't tried
For some people it's an easy choice
But for me there's a devil and an angel's voice
Well I don't know what I am looking for
But I know that I just wanna look some more
Well I don't know what I'm living for
But I know that I just wanna live some more
And you hear it from strangers
And you hear it from friends
That love never dies, love never ends
Now I don't wanna argue, no I don't wanna fight
'Cause you're always wrong and I'm always right
Well I don't know what I am living for
But I know that I just wanna live some more
I used to be involved, and I felt like a king
Now I've lost it all and I don't feel a thing
I may never grow old, I may never give in
And I'll blame this world that I live in
I visit hell on a daily basis
I see the sadness in all your faces
I've got friends who have married
And their lives seem complete
Here I am still stumbling down a darkened street
And I act like a child and I'm insecure
And I'm filled with doubt and I'm immature
Sometimes it creeps up on me and before I know it
I'm lost at sea
But no matter how far I row
I always find my way back home
But I don't know what I've been waiting for
But I know that I don't wanna wait anymore
Looking for...
What I'm looking for...
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What I'm looking for...
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What I'm looking for...
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What I'm looking for...
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I hate to see you cry
Lying there in that position
There's things you need to hear
so turn off your tears
and listen.
Pain throws your heart to the ground
Love turns the whole thing around
No it won't all go the way it should
but I know the heart of life is good.
You know it's nothing new
bad news never had good timing
then the circle of your friends
will defend the silver lining
Pain throws your heart to the ground
Love turns the whole thing around
No it won't all go the way it should
but I know the heart of life is good.
Pain throws your heart to the ground
Love turns the whole thing around
Fear is a friend who's misunderstood
but I know the heart of life is good.
I know it's good.
mei you
That is 帅哥
俺身宽体胖(strong)、脑满肠肥(healty, 肠 is so 肥 that is could let a boat pull through)、头大眼小(high brain cell capability, indication of brilliant while focus)、目光呆滞(A result of deep passion)，蒜头鼻(indicator of strong sexuality)、汉堡嘴(A good kisser)，雀斑多(Thta is what man should have)、头发少。(No hair could be more tender than skin )
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It is more like a scientific intepretation. SII解读
恭喜：你意外获得【通宝】一枚
鲜花已经成功送出。
此次送花为【有效送花赞扬，涨乐善、声望】
结婚是需要勇气的，拉一个不相干只凭短时间感情的人进自己生活要考虑和妥协很多。楼主确实不太从妻子的角度考虑阿，又不愿意协商和妥协，这日子就难过了。
我觉得你夫人的想法也是可以理解的，每个女人都希望自己生活得衣食无忧，自己无法实现的愿望就寄托在自己的丈夫身上。就如我，应该说学历，工作还都算是可以，但有时也会幻想自己能生活得悠闲一点，自己想工作就工作，不工作也不需要为衣食住行担忧。你夫人的抱怨在于对未来的担忧，也就是说她看不到希望，或许是她太年轻了，言语严重了一点，但却说出了她的不安全感。你除了在这里写出你的想法，也应该跟你夫人交流一下。你们都还年轻着，美好的生活有的是机会去获得。
楼上说的有道理，做到什么地步是能力问题，做不做就是态度问题了。一句话：有没有这份心。
长辈总是希望孩子过的好的。如果您确实不能如他们所愿的升官发财，那对人家女儿好一些，也成啊。体贴老实的女婿，一般长辈也能欣赏吧（参见故园mm的帖子）。毕竟这世上做到胡core位置的人不多，我想老人家也明白这个道理。
但是如果两边都不沾，对长辈的礼数也不到，有误会也不说开，还要求这那，这日子就比较郁闷了。。。对双方的。。
不过对于楼主的婚姻，岳家的影响远不及两个人自身的问题严重。
我个人喜欢平白的解剖自己，既包括优点也包括缺点。做一些重要决定时候写在纸上，决定了的事情就无怨无悔。
女人也是这样。有平和善良有教养的女人，也有贪婪无廉耻粗鄙的新女性。当然还有很多人介于这两者之间。男人也一样。
哄不一定始终有用。有的人，越哄越可爱。你哄她，她知道是你对她好。她的反应是对你更好。你婚姻中可能遇上的是这种。也有的人，越哄越可怕。她觉得别人对她好是应该的，甚至是别人贱，对人极其刻薄。台湾的李敖说过一句话，挺形象，“你如果把新女性当成女神，她就会变成女巫”。近者逊，远者怨，越尊重他/她，他/她越看不起你，你敬而远之，他/她会怨恨你。现实社会，工作交往也见过这种人，有男有女。而人在人品上的好坏是不分男女的。
当然，我不是说，楼主的配偶一定是这样的人。我们都隔着个互联网，离彼此地生活很远。不能象朋友一样相互了解，知道事情的来龙去脉。所以我觉得，做为河友出主意，还是多站在楼主的角度想想。楼主本来挺难受，我们再一刺激，虽然是好心，可不一定有好效果。
写下来也许是个好办法，是重新逼自己回忆和思考的过程，有点难受，但是有效的多，有时候了解自己就是那一瞬最直接的反应吧，而不是后来说服自己的无数理由……