主题：【原创】相亲奇遇记(16)我们都不是普通人(上) -- 忘情
既然能和她约会多次， 一开始她肯定有让你喜欢的地方吧。
让人害怕的不是她的直率， 而是她 being desperate, 和真性情有什么关系。 真性情的人敢恨敢爱，敢做敢担。
This simply serves as a reference for Wangqin.
X每回都断然拒绝了。就连每回晚上我送她回家，也只让我送她到HD小区里某个岔道口，然后我发现她象个地下工作者似地左拐右拐，并不时地窥探后面有无人跟踪，然后突然加速，迅速地消失在阴影里。
She used to care you while she didn't trust you. Could we explain this as she doesn't want to bother her mother at this stage? Introducing you to her mom would make her mom worry about the relationship between you guys very much. Her mom's heart is not in good state. She loves her mom very much, in fact.
X母亲那病，也没有什么特效药，关健在于静养和调整。你既然整个暑假在家，那家务活什么的总得帮着做点吧。那不，X仍然坚持在外面嗨，坚持每晚玩到12点以后再睡，每天上午不到10点起不了床，还得母亲把早饭端到她床头。
As long as she stays at home, her mom feels secured and happy. Believe me? She is close to 30, but not so old that she could stay at home to watch TV with mom for the whole night day after day, right? She hasn't been a household woman yet. She needs social activities, because the vigor of youth still jumps inside her body.
我问她家务怎么做？菜怎么买？X回答都是母亲做，母亲早上五点半就去菜场，趁着凉快买回菜来，再洗洗抹抹地做家务。那么，你放假在家，就不能帮帮生病体弱的母亲吗？从她家到洪都菜场，得走上一刻钟，要是路上心肌梗塞突然犯了，你连知都不知道，那该如何得了？
The household work makes her mom at ease. A person free of any responsibilities could be a walking-dead-person. The way of her staying at home might be not very positive in your eyes, however it at least cannot be explained as she does not care her mom. If she does not care, she can go somewhere else during the summer vacation.
X对自己的亲生母亲尚且如此，那我不敢指望将来她能对我父母孝顺。除非她是灰姑娘嫁入豪门，处处低眉顺眼那是有所图。可惜我穷小子一个，不存在这种可能性。
Wangqin's understanding about 孝顺 is too narrow. I dod understand his concern. However, how she gets along with your parents if you guys come together eventually mainly depends on the relationship between you both. I would say there is no 不孝顺 xifu, while there is only 不孝顺 son.
我自幼家贫，父母含辛茹苦地将我们两兄弟拉扯大，直到现在都还是自己舍不得吃，舍不得穿，更舍不得用，有一点好东西都得留给我们兄弟二人。
You need encourage your parents to burn some money. Buy sth for them, and let them enjoy the happiness brought by money. Money does not mean anything if you never use it.
当然，只要我打电话过去，X虽然脾气越来越大，态度越来越凶悍，但终归还是会接电话的
She had feelings with you still. You wish she is very polite to you? Did you ever hold her hands and say " I love you, and I want to spend the rest of life with you" sincerely? if say so please not speak in Nanchangese.
They are pretty responsible for you- they are showing how the boy could change after 20, 40, or 60 years. You misunderstood them.
祝早日成功
是一个有爱心的人，愿意倾听别人，帮助别人的人。她连最基本的倾听都还没有学会
不能因为父母的“慈”，所以自己就理所当然地不尽“孝”呀。
你看啊，像我们这些人基本看不懂成段的鸟语，但是仁兄的发言是字字珠玑，又想看的不得了。
所以，仁兄能不能用比较简单的语法结构来表达您的意思呢？
譬如：Iron hand is best best best red sun in my heart。以此类推
这样，您写得清楚，我们看得明白，岂不是两全其美？
That could be easy. They feel lonely, while Wangqin is gernerous and have time as well. The reality is it is more difficult to 泡 old mm...like 2-10 years older than Wangqin. That would be rather hard.
相亲这种事，尤其是熟人介绍的，见一次面就卡掉，介绍人很没面子的，女方也不大好手。
再说谁都知道人的第一印象是不靠谱的，要多接触，忘情基本就是这么做的。
从之前的文章看，忘情不是那种只看脸面的人。再加上他比较讲礼，所以一定会多约几次的。
猫di,
I am gonna use most most most simple 鸟语.
It does not mean he is not excellent, in fact. Maybe his attitude toward 文科和商科的人 is not good. Does he struggle for Ph. D., right?